Ah, the question that has plagued relationships for millennia.
Threesomes are one of the most popular ways that couples venture into new things, spice up their sex lives, and try something new. It all seems so perfect, right?
Most couples admit to having a threesome or thinking about having a threesome at least once in their relationship. It’s a simple way to have some fun, and with so many success stories out there, why shouldn’t you try it?
Well, it’s not that easy, and I am here to answer your question and the question so many people ask themselves: Should I have a threesome? Or, is it best kept as a fantasy?
How Do We Have A Threesome?
It can be difficult to actually make it happen, once you and your partner have decided it’s time to invite someone into the bedroom, making it really happen is another story. It can be intimidating, nerve-racking, and a bit of a headache.
The best thing to do is to start slowly.
Once you are your wife are on the same page, it’s highly recommended to watch threesome porn, swinger porn, wife sharing porn (kinky sites such as WifeCore are amazing for this), and watch these videos together. Don’t shy away from them, embrace them, and find what turns you on about them. Pleasure yourself together as you watch them and discuss how you want your threesome to look. Ask yourself and your wife questions, such as:
- Will you invite a woman or a man into your bed?
- Will you rent a hotel room for the night or invite your date to your home?
- How does this kind of porn make you feel? jealous? anxious? aroused?
- Imagine yourself in the porn video; what does that feel like?
Once you know what you both want, head onto dating sites, dating apps, and even into the real world to find someone you like enough to bring into your bedroom. Be open and honest at all times and don’t jump into things just because you are horny. This is very important.
Be open on dating sites, explain what you’re looking for, and people will come. There are lots of men and women out there, eager to be a third. Just be sure to do your due diligence before meeting them.
The Good Thing About Threesomes
There are a lot of pros to having a threesome with your partner. Let’s take a look at them:
- Reviving and adding a spark to your sex life
- Trying something new and kinky
- New experiences
- Boosts sexual satisfaction and arousal
- Being able to try new people without leaving your partner
- Some couples report being even more in love after a threesome
- Threesomes open up the avenue to other things such as swinging, sex clubs, and wife sharing.
- Exploring unexplored kinks together
- Threesomes are something we have enjoyed for years and years
- Boosts connection
- Life is too short
- It can be a lot of fun
- Better orgasms
- You can meet new people and make new friends
The Bad Things About Threesomes
With every pro, there is always a con, so let’s discuss some of the most common cons to having threesomes:
- It can change your relationship
- Some couples experience jealousy
- It can be hard to find the right third
- One of you may feel neglected or pressured
- It can create insecurity
- Some regret it and can’t get over it
Can I have A Threesome Without The Commitment?
If the cons of having a threesome scare you or you just want to keep this idea as a naughty fantasy, the great thing is that, yes, you can have a threesome or experience something of a threesome without actually committing to it.
The beauty of the modern world is that you can be free to roleplay a threesome using things like sex toys and sex devices, making sure they’re anatomically correct. Wear wigs, different outfits, rent a hotel room, roleplay a meeting for the first time, and use your sex toys to mimic a third. This does take some imagination, but it does work at mimicking the sensation, and so many couples are content with leaving their fantasy here.
Some couples also turn to webcams and adult sites to have threesomes through sexting and webcam sex. Many find the right person, turn on their webcam and start fucking digitally. It’s a new age, and people have found so many interesting ways to have a ‘threesome’ without even leaving their home.
A Final Word…
A threesome is a great way to try something totally new, spice up your sex life, feel more sexually fulfilled, and experience more of life. The downside is jealousy, potential shifts in your relationship, and getting the confidence to actually go out and do it.
By starting slowly, you can omit some of the potential damage and become accustomed to the feel and dynamic of a threesome before you invite a third into your bedroom, do this by watching threesome and wife sharing porn aswell as taking to dating apps and dating sites to dip your toes into the water, if you like what you experience, go for it, spread your wings and enjoy some trio fun! Life is way too short after all.
