Syren De Mer (June 24, 1969; Bellingham, Washington) is an American pornographic actress and erotic model. She is known for her appearances in the MILF genre of adult film as The Queen of Milfs. As the years went by, he began gangbanging in the local swinger community, and built a very good reputation in the Pacific Northwest, as well as working with a few photographers to create an adult career. In 1994 she met her husband, who introduced her to BDSM. In 2005, De Mer launched her first website and, after having her second child, began working in the adult industry full time. In the summer of 2006, she signed with the Seymore Butts agency, to later go on to work for Lisa Ann's Talent Management.